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realramonaflowers:

hey stuff like this is actually really like. borderline manipulative and it’s one thing to just have thoughts like “oh everyone gets tired of me and leaves and i wish they didn’t” but if you say things like this to friends especially if you’re in really serious relationships where one of you is being supported by the other (even if it’s mutual) that can be really manipulative and make people feel obligated to be your friend and not leave you and make promises they don’t want to and can’t keep and can be really really unhealthy for both of you
like i understand feeling sad when friendships end but emotionally manipulating people into relationships is REALLY not cool even if you don’t realize you’re doing it, and it’s not just this post, there’s this whole mentality of like, co-dependent relationships are the MOST MEANINGFUL relationships and you have to be close FOREVER or it’s not real or whatever and that’s really unhealthy and toxic like please don’t
everyone has the right to end friendships and leave relationships whether it’s a conscious decision or happens naturally over time. relationships end. let it happen, get over it. please don’t depend on people because they are also people like you who need to have the autonomy to get out of bad situations or on a less serious level just do whatever the fuck they want with their lives
your friends might make you feel special and less alone but they don’t EXIST SOLELY FOR THAT PURPOSE and they don’t owe it to you to stick with you forever, especially if you try to make them feel like they do

realramonaflowers:

hey stuff like this is actually really like. borderline manipulative and it’s one thing to just have thoughts like “oh everyone gets tired of me and leaves and i wish they didn’t” but if you say things like this to friends especially if you’re in really serious relationships where one of you is being supported by the other (even if it’s mutual) that can be really manipulative and make people feel obligated to be your friend and not leave you and make promises they don’t want to and can’t keep and can be really really unhealthy for both of you

like i understand feeling sad when friendships end but emotionally manipulating people into relationships is REALLY not cool even if you don’t realize you’re doing it, and it’s not just this post, there’s this whole mentality of like, co-dependent relationships are the MOST MEANINGFUL relationships and you have to be close FOREVER or it’s not real or whatever and that’s really unhealthy and toxic like please don’t

everyone has the right to end friendships and leave relationships whether it’s a conscious decision or happens naturally over time. relationships end. let it happen, get over it. please don’t depend on people because they are also people like you who need to have the autonomy to get out of bad situations or on a less serious level just do whatever the fuck they want with their lives

your friends might make you feel special and less alone but they don’t EXIST SOLELY FOR THAT PURPOSE and they don’t owe it to you to stick with you forever, especially if you try to make them feel like they do

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angomango:

This makes me so goddamn happy

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catchingupdates:

Julianne Moore is rumored to play President Coin in Mockingjay! (x) (x)

"We’ve heard casting rumors concerning Mockingjay Parts 1 and 2 over the past several months, but this is the strongest and most reliable murmur yet. In addition, it’s the first time we’re hearing about a particular actress for the role of Coin.

A tweet from one of THR’s writers this morning indicated that Jodie Foster was previously approached for the part.”

Weird.  Foster was Clarice in Silence of the Lambs and then Moore took over for Hannibal.  Both of these ladies are cool, but it’s just hmmm…

(Source: mockingjayupdates, via allorain)

Southern California: my friend’s grandparents are missing
»UPDATE: They were spotted and are safe.

Southern California: my friend’s grandparents are missing
»UPDATE: They were spotted and are safe.

# Aaah I'm terrible at using mobile apps# missing persons# signal boost

rneerkat:

whens chip skylarks next tour

hopefully when n’sync gets back together (and who knows when that will happen)

(Source: rneerkat, via periwinkle-sea)

# nsync# chip skylark
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